Sometimes we spend so much time reading, writing, talking of all the NEGATIVE about the opposite sex, let's take a moment sometimes to appreciate the POSITIVE in them, inside and out! Without bias for just who you like at the moment, or what race or culture you are from...unless you live in a box that includes only those two types of men, and even there you can find qualities to appreciate inside and out I am sure!
In the spirit of Christmas -- the giving season -- and the authority of the number three (like the Holy Trinity), I am giving out superlative COMPLIMENTS in groups of three to the men I have come across in the last decade or so, by nationality (just for fun)! JOY TO THE WORLD *smile*!
The three most beautiful men I have ever seen in my life are from Jamaica, the U.S. Virgin Islands, and Morocco.
The three men with the strongest minds I have ever met are from the United States of America and Jamaica.
The three men with the strongest Christian faith I have ever met are from the United States of America and Cameroon.
The three men with the most respect for women I have ever met are from Guyana, Ghana and the United States of America.
The three most AMBITIOUS men I have ever met are from Jamaica, China, and Morocco (a different one).
The three smartest men I have ever met are from Jamaica, China, and the United States of America.
The three funniest men I have ever met are from Jamaica and the United States of America.
The three most romantic men I have ever met are from Jamaica, Haiti, and Trinidad & Tobago.
The three most family-oriented men I have ever met are from India, Trinidad & Tobago, and Jamaica!
The three best athletes I have ever met (personally) are from Jamaica!
The three most generous men I have ever met are from Jamaica and the U.S. Virgin Islands (a different one).
So many countries of the world represented, all shades, nationalities, religions, occupations, educational levels...heights (lol cause I know us women love to pick on men over how close to the 6 foot tall mark they are). Variety is the spice of life, don't focus on what's wrong with people all the time (although it's good to be sensible about people's limitations)...focus on what is interesting and what you can learn from each new person you meet, each new friend you make.
It's easy to commiserate with the next person cracking a joke about a man leaving the toilet seat up or never asking for directions when lost...it's a little different and much better for your mind and spirit, though, to remember when you needed that late-night run to the store for tissue or milk and he wasn't even your boyfriend or husband but he did it for you, to remember all the road trips not CARING where you're going because of the personality in the car next to you sharing the moment, whether that personality was the friend who kept it live with jokes and music or the man you were interested in who kept that electricity sparking the air in the car all the way!
Share with the men you know ladies and take the time feel GOOD about them being here, because imagine if God made a mate for every other animal in existence and none for humans...then there would be only men, and we wouldn't be here to brighten their world and give them that motivation to go beyond what they are capable of today!
Christmas greetings guys, let's end 2010 on a positive note and start 2011 truly HAPPY! As my aunt so graciously likes to say: be well!